Learn English with an ESL Friends Lesson

The Secret (7)


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Published: 5.02.2026
Level 3   |   Time: 2:37
Accent: American
Source: Friends [S5 E15]

Ross discovers that his best friend Chandler has been secretly dating his sister Monica.


triangle Directions 목표 Direcciones Instruções


  1. READ the VOCABULARY + BACKGROUND

    It is important to read the vocabulary and background before you watch the video. This will improve your ability to understand the video. It will also help you understand how the new vocabulary is used naturally.

  2. WATCH the VIDEO

    The first time you watch the video, just try to understand the overall situation.

  3. ANSWER the QUESTIONS

    First, try to answer all the questions from memory. Then rewatch the video and try to answer the questions that you missed.

  4. WATCH and READ the SCRIPT

    Watch the video again while you read the script. Reading and listening at the same time will help you hear each individual word and improve your listening accuracy.

  5. DO the ACTIVITIES

    There are several different activities that focus on listening accuracy, pronunciation, vocabulary, grammar, and sentence structure.

  1. LEA el VOCABULARIO y ANTECEDENTES.

    Es importante leer el vocabulario y los antecedentes antes de ver el video. Esto mejorará su capacidad para comprender el video. También le ayudará a comprender cómo se usa el nuevo vocabulario de forma natural.

  2. VER el VIDEO

    La primera vez que vea el video, intente comprender la situación general.

  3. RESPONDE a las PREGUNTAS

    Primero intente responder todas las preguntas de memoria. Luego, vuelva a ver el video e intente responder las preguntas que se perdió.

  4. MIRAR Y LEER

    Mire el video nuevamente mientras lee el guión. Leer y escuchar al mismo tiempo lo ayudará a escuchar cada palabra individual y mejorará su precisión auditiva.

  5. HACER LAS ACTIVIDADES

    Hay una serie de actividades diferentes que se centran en la precisión auditiva, la pronunciación, el vocabulario, la gramática y la estructura de las oraciones.

  1. 어휘와 배경 읽기

    비디오를 보기 전에 어휘와 배경을 읽는 것이 중요합니다. 이렇게 하면 비디오를 이해하는 능력이 향상됩니다. 또한 새로운 어휘가 어떻게 자연스럽게 사용되는지 이해하는데 도움이됩니다.

  2. 비디오 보기

    비디오를 처음 볼 때 전체 상황을 이해하려고 노력하세요.

  3. 문제에 답하기

    먼저 모든 질문에 답을 해보세요. 그런 다음 비디오를 다시보고 놓친 질문에 답해보세요.

  4. 비디오 보면서 대본 읽기

    대본을 읽는 동안 비디오를 다시 보세요. 읽기와 듣기를 동시에 하면 각각의 단어를 듣고, 듣기 정확도를 향상시킬 수 있습니다.

  5. 액티비티 하기

    듣기 정확도, 발음, 어휘, 문법 및 문장 구조에 초점을 맞춘 다양한 액티비티가 있습니다.

  1. LER o VOCABULÁRIO + FUNDO

    É importante ler o vocabulário e o histórico antes de assistir ao vídeo. Isso melhorará sua capacidade de entender o vídeo. Também ajudará você a entender como o novo vocabulário é usado naturalmente.

  2. ASSISTA ao VÍDEO

    Na primeira vez que assistir ao vídeo, tente entender a situação geral.

  3. RESPONDA às PERGUNTAS

    Primeiro, tente responder todas as perguntas de memória. Em seguida, assista novamente ao vídeo e tente responder às perguntas que você errou.

  4. ASSISTA e LEIA o SCRIPT

    Assista ao vídeo novamente enquanto lê o roteiro. Ler e ouvir ao mesmo tempo ajudará você a ouvir cada palavra individualmente e a melhorar sua precisão auditiva.

  5. FAÇA as ATIVIDADES

    Existem várias atividades diferentes que se concentram na precisão auditiva, pronúncia, vocabulário, gramática e estrutura da frase.

triangle Vocabulary 어휘 Vocabulário Vocabulario


  • ☐ ☐ ☐ have a good run [exp] - have an enjoyable or successful period of time
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ go on the lam [exp] - run away or hide to avoid the police
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ handle (s/o) [v] - deal with or manage (someone)
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ bro [n] - brother, often used between close friends
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ Dude! [exp] - Man! (an informal way to express shock or disbelief)
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ mess around [phv] - be in a casual or non-serious romantic relationship
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ react [v] - respond to something that has happened
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ clear out of (s/w) [phv] - leave a place quickly
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ lovebirds [n] - two people who are very much in love with each other
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ get down to business [exp] - stop wasting time and start focusing on the main activity
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ do (s/o) [v] - have sex with (someone)

[n] - noun,  [v] - verb,  [phv] - phrasal verb,  [adj] - adjective,  [exp] - expression



triangle Background 배경 O fundo Antecedentes


Chandler from Friends Monica from Friends Ross from Friends Joey from Friends Rachel from Friends
Chandler Monica Ross Joey Rachel
  • Monica and Chandler have been secretly dating for several months.
  • Their friends — Joey, Rachel, and Phoebe — all know about the secret relationship.
  • Ross is Monica's brother and Chandler's best friend. He is the only one who does not know.

  • For more background, watch the previous video:   The Secret (6)

triangle Questions 문제 Questões Preguntas


  1. Ross saw Chandler and Monica through a window.
    True
    False

  2. When Ross confronted Chandler, Chandler wanted to stay and talk to him.
    True
    False

  3. Monica said she could handle Ross.
    True
    False

  4. Ross was initially happy when he found out about Monica and Chandler.
    True
    False

  5. Chandler told Ross he was just messing around with Monica.
    True
    False

  6. Monica admitted she was in love with Chandler.
    True
    False

  7. Rachel and Joey knew about Monica and Chandler before Ross did.
    True
    False

  8. Ross was initially angry at his friends for not telling him.
    True
    False

  9. Joey wants to leave so that Monica and Chandler can continue...
    True
    False

  10. Ross agrees with Joey's suggestion.
    True
    False

Score:



triangle Vocabulary Review 어휘 검토 Revisão de vocabulário Vocabulario revisión


Directions: What expressions from the video have the same meaning as the highlighted expressions in the sentences below?

Instrucciones: ¿Qué expresiones del video tienen el mismo significado que las expresiones destacadas en las oraciones siguientes?

Instruções: Quais expressões do vídeo têm o mesmo significado que as expressões destacadas nas frases abaixo?

지시 사항: 아래 문장에서 강조된 표현과 같은 의미를 가진 표현을 영상에서 찾아보세요.


  1. Listen, we had [ a successful time ]. You know, what was it? Four? Five months?

    [ a good run ]



  2. Come on, Chandler. I can [ deal with ] Ross.

    [ handle ]



  3. Look, we're not just [ dating casually ]. I love her.

    [ messing around ]



  4. What do you say we all [ leave ] here?

    [ clear out of ]



  5. We can let these two [ lovers ] [ continue their work ].

    [ lovebirds ] [ get back down to business ]



  6. I'm just talking here. He's the one [ having sex with ] your sister.

    [ doing ]



triangle Sentence Building 문장 만들기 Construção de sentença Construcción de oraciones


Directions: Write sentences about the video clip using the words given. You can change the word form or add words, but you cannot change the word order.
Use a present time frame (tense).
( ) = optional   [ ] = necessary

Instrucciones: Escriba oraciones sobre el videoclip usando las palabras dadas. Puede cambiar la forma de la palabra o agregar palabras, pero no puede cambiar el orden de las palabras. Usa el tiempo presente.
( ) = opcional   [ ] = necesario

Instruções: Escribe oraciones sobre el videoclip usando las palabras dadas. Puede cambiar la forma de las palabras o agregar palabras, pero no puede cambiar el orden de las palabras. Usa tiempo presente.
( ) = opcional   [ ] = necessário

지시 : 주어진 단어를 사용하여 비디오 클립에 대한 문장을 씁니다. 어형을 변경하거나 단어를 추가할 수 있지만 어순은 변경할 수 없습니다. 현재 시제를 사용합니다.
( ) = 선택 사항   [ ] = 필수 사항



Sentence 1

Ross / see / Chandler / Monica / kiss / through / window / and / go / confront / them


Ross sees Chandler and Monica kissing through [a/the] window and goes to confront them.



Sentence 2

Chandler / panic / and / want / run / away


Chandler panics and wants to run away.



Sentence 3

Monica / stop / Chandler / and / say / she / can / handle / Ross


Monica stops Chandler and says (that) she can handle Ross.



Sentence 4

Rachel / Joey / come / over / see / what / happen


Rachel and Joey come over (in order) to see what is happening.



Sentence 5

Chandler / tell / Joey / he / think / Ross / discover / secret


Chandler tells Joey (that) he thinks Ross has discovered [their/the] secret.



Sentence 6

Ross / say / not / believe / best / friend / date / sister


Ross says (that) he can't believe (that) his best friend [is/has been] dating his sister.



Sentence 7

Chandler / tell / Ross / love / Monica and / they / not / just / mess / around


Chandler tells Ross (that) he loves Monica and (that) they are not just messing around.



Sentence 8

Monica / apologize / Ross / admit / love / Chandler / too


Monica apologizes to Ross and admits (that) she loves Chandler too.



Sentence 9

Ross / angry / discover / Rachel / Joey / know / long / time / not / tell / him


Ross is also angry (that) Rachel and Joey knew (about it) and didn't tell him.



Sentence 10

Joey / suggest / everyone / clear / out / apartment / let / lovebird / get / down / business


Joey suggests (that) everyone (should) clear out of the apartment and let the lovebirds get down to business.

Joey suggests (that) everyone (should) clear out of the apartment (in order) to let the lovebirds get down to business.



triangle Listen & Repeat 듣고 따라하기 Ouça e repita Escuchar y repetir


Directions: Play the audio clip and try to repeat what you hear. Click "Show" to see the text.

Instrucciones: Reproduce el clip de audio e intenta repetir lo que escuchas. Haga clic en "Show" para ver el texto.

Instruções: Reproduzca el clip de audio e intente repetir lo que escucha. Haga clic en "Mostrar" para ver el texto.

지시 사항 : 오디오 클립을 재생하고 들리는 내용을 반복해 보십시오. 텍스트를 보려면 "Show" 를 클릭하십시오.


Clip 1

I saw what you were doing through the window!



Clip 2

I saw what you were doing to my sister! Now get out here!



Clip 3

We had a good run, you know. What was it? Four? Five months?



Clip 4

That's more than most people have in a lifetime!



Clip 5

What are you doing?



Clip 6

I thought you were my best friend. This is my sister!



Clip 7

My best friend and my sister! I-I cannot believe this!



Clip 8

Look, we're not just messing around. I love her, okay. I'm in love with her.



Clip 9

My best friend and my sister. I cannot believe this.



Clip 10

Awww, that's okay. We've actually known for a while.



Clip 11

What do you say we all clear out of here and let these two lovebirds get back down to business?



Clip 12

I-I'm just talking here. He-he's the one doing your sister.



triangle Discussion 논의 Questões de discussão Discusión


  1. Why does Ross change his opinion about Monica and Chandler's relationship?
  2. Put yourself in Ross's position. How would you feel if you found out your best friend was dating your brother or sister?
  3. Rachel and Joey kept the secret from Ross because they were worried about how he would react. Do you think they made the right decision? Why?
  4. Chandler says he is "in love with" Monica, not just that he "loves" her. What is the difference between "I love you" and "I'm in love with you"?
  5. In your culture, would a brother typically have a strong opinion about who his sister dates? Would a sister typically have a strong opinion about who her brother dates?
  6. Considering all seven videos in this series, who do you think handled the situation best? Who handled it worst?

triangle Script 대본 Roteiro Guion


Ross: Chandler!! Chandler!! Chandler, I saw what you were doing through the window! I saw what you were doing to my sister! Now get out here!

Chandler: Wow! Listen, we had a good run, you know. What was it? Four? Five months? I mean, that's more than most people have in a lifetime. So, good-bye, take care, bye-bye then!

Monica: What are you doing?

Chandler: Oh, I'm going on the lam.

Monica: Come on, Chandler. Come on. I can handle Ross. Hold on!

Monica: Hey Ross. What's up, bro?

Ross: What the hell are you doing?!

Rachel: Hey, what's going on?!

Chandler: Well, I think, I think Ross knows about me and Monica.

Joey: Dude! He's right there!

Ross: I thought you were my best friend. This is my sister! My best friend and my sister! I cannot believe this!

Chandler: Look, we're not just messing around. I love her, okay. I'm in love with her.

Monica: I'm so sorry that you had to find out this way. I'm sorry, but it's true. I love him, too.

Ross: My best friend and my sister. I cannot believe this. You guys want to probably get some hugs in too, huh? Big news!

Rachel: Awww, that's okay. We've actually known for a while.

Ross: What? What? What?! You guys knew? You, you all knew and you didn't tell me?!

Rachel: Well, Ross, we were worried about you, okay. We didn't know how you were going to react.

Ross: You were worried about me? You didn't know how I was going to react?

Joey: Okay, alright, whew! What do you say we all clear out of here and let these two lovebirds get back down to business? Hey-hey-hey, I'm just talking here. He's the one doing your sister.

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