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#26. Valentine's Ritual


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Published: 12 Feb 2024
Level 4 (B1+)   |   Time: 4:27
Accent: American
Source: Friends [S1 E14]

On Valentine's Day, the girls decide to perform a ritual to try to change their bad luck with men.


Directions 이용안내 Direcciones Instruções Інструкції


  1. READ the VOCABULARY + BACKGROUND

    It is important to read the vocabulary and background before you watch the video. This will improve your ability to understand the video. It will also help you understand how the new vocabulary is used naturally.

  2. WATCH the VIDEO

    The first time you watch the video, just try to understand the overall situation.

  3. ANSWER the QUESTIONS

    First, try to answer all the questions from memory. Then rewatch the video and try to answer the questions that you missed.

  4. WATCH and READ the SCRIPT

    Watch the video again while you read the script. Reading and listening at the same time will help you hear each individual word and improve your listening accuracy.

  5. DO the ACTIVITIES

    There are several different activities that focus on listening accuracy, pronunciation, vocabulary, grammar, and sentence structure.

  1. LEA el VOCABULARIO y ANTECEDENTES.

    Es importante leer el vocabulario y los antecedentes antes de ver el video. Esto mejorará su capacidad para comprender el video. También le ayudará a comprender cómo se usa el nuevo vocabulario de forma natural.

  2. VER el VIDEO

    La primera vez que vea el video, intente comprender la situación general.

  3. RESPONDE a las PREGUNTAS

    Primero intente responder todas las preguntas de memoria. Luego, vuelva a ver el video e intente responder las preguntas que se perdió.

  4. MIRAR Y LEER

    Mire el video nuevamente mientras lee el guión. Leer y escuchar al mismo tiempo lo ayudará a escuchar cada palabra individual y mejorará su precisión auditiva.

  5. HACER LAS ACTIVIDADES

    Hay una serie de actividades diferentes que se centran en la precisión auditiva, la pronunciación, el vocabulario, la gramática y la estructura de las oraciones.

  1. 어휘와 배경 읽기

    비디오를 보기 전에 어휘와 배경을 읽는 것이 중요합니다. 이렇게 하면 비디오를 이해하는 능력이 향상됩니다. 또한 새로운 어휘가 어떻게 자연스럽게 사용되는지 이해하는데 도움이됩니다.

  2. 비디오 보기

    비디오를 처음 볼 때 전체 상황을 이해하려고 노력하세요.

  3. 문제에 답하기

    먼저 모든 질문에 답을 해보세요. 그런 다음 비디오를 다시보고 놓친 질문에 답해보세요.

  4. 비디오 보면서 대본 읽기

    대본을 읽는 동안 비디오를 다시 보세요. 읽기와 듣기를 동시에 하면 각각의 단어를 듣고, 듣기 정확도를 향상시킬 수 있습니다.

  5. 액티비티 하기

    듣기 정확도, 발음, 어휘, 문법 및 문장 구조에 초점을 맞춘 다양한 액티비티가 있습니다.

  1. LER o VOCABULÁRIO + FUNDO

    É importante ler o vocabulário e o histórico antes de assistir ao vídeo. Isso melhorará sua capacidade de entender o vídeo. Também ajudará você a entender como o novo vocabulário é usado naturalmente.

  2. ASSISTA ao VÍDEO

    Na primeira vez que assistir ao vídeo, tente entender a situação geral.

  3. RESPONDA às PERGUNTAS

    Primeiro, tente responder todas as perguntas de memória. Em seguida, assista novamente ao vídeo e tente responder às perguntas que você errou.

  4. ASSISTA e LEIA o SCRIPT

    Assista ao vídeo novamente enquanto lê o roteiro. Ler e ouvir ao mesmo tempo ajudará você a ouvir cada palavra individualmente e a melhorar sua precisão auditiva.

  5. FAÇA as ATIVIDADES

    Existem várias atividades diferentes que se concentram na precisão auditiva, pronúncia, vocabulário, gramática e estrutura da frase.

  1. ПРОЧИТАЙТЕ СЛОВНИК і ОСНОВНУ ІНФОРМАЦІЮ

    Важливо прочитати словник і основну інформацію перед переглядом відео. Це покращить вашу здатність розуміти відео. Це також допоможе вам зрозуміти, як нова лексика використовується природно.

  2. ПЕРЕГЛЯНЬТЕ ВІДЕО

    Коли дивитеся відео вперше, просто намагайтеся зрозуміти загальну ситуацію.

  3. ВІДПОВІДАЙТЕ НА ЗАПИТАННЯ

    Спочатку спробуйте відповісти на всі запитання з пам'яті. Потім перегляньте відео ще раз і спробуйте відповісти на запитання, які ви пропустили.

  4. ПЕРЕГЛЯНЬТЕ і ПРОЧИТАЙТЕ СЦЕНАРІЙ

    Перегляньте відео ще раз, читаючи сценарій. Читання і слухання одночасно допоможе вам почути кожне окреме слово і покращити точність сприйняття на слух.

  5. ВИКОНАЙТЕ ЗАВДАННЯ

    Існує кілька різних завдань, які зосереджені на точності сприйняття на слух, вимові, лексиці, граматиці та структурі речень.

Vocabulary 어휘 Vocabulário Vocabulario Словник


Check the words you already know. Marca las palabras que ya conoces. Marque as palavras que você já conhece. 이미 아는 단어에 체크하세요. Позначте слова, які ви вже знаєте.

  • ☐ ☐ ☐ dump v. - break up with, end a relationship
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ creepy adj. - causing an unpleasant feeling of fear
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ frightening adj. - scary
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ magnets n. - pieces of metal that attract other pieces of metal
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ shaves her head exp. - removes all the hair from her head
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ voluntarily adv. - by choice, not an obligation
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ bald adj. - having no hair [image] ESL Vocab - bald
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ a ritual n. - a ceremony
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ chant v. - repeat words rhythmically, similar to sing but without music
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ burn v. - light on fire
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ sage branches n. - branches from a sage plant [image] ESL Vocab - sage
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ sacramental wine n. - wine used in religious ceremonies
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ oregano n. - a type of spice
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ Fresca n. - a type of soda [image] ESL Vocab - Fresca
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ boxer shorts n. - men's underwear [image] ESL Vocab - boxers
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ grappa n. - a type of Italian brandy (strong alcohol) [image] ESL Vocab - grappa
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ half-charred adj. - half-burned
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ a bonfire n. - a large fire that is (usually) made outside to burn unwanted things [image] ESL Vocab - a bonfire
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ get out of control exp. - lose control
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ get off phv. - finish work
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ pick (you) up phv. - come to your house to meet you and take you somewhere
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ a cleansing n. - a ritual or ceremony to clean the spirit or soul

n. - noun,    v. - verb,    phv. - phrasal verb,    adj. - adjective,    exp. - expression



Background 배경 O fundo Antecedentes Контекст


Monica from Friends Rachel from Friends Phoebe from Friends
Monica Rachel Phoebe
  • Valentine's Day is coming soon.
  • The girls are all single and have had a lot of bad luck with men recently.

Questions 문제 Questões Preguntas Запитання


  1. Phoebe ______ Roger.
    dumped
    was dumped by

  2. Phoebe says that Roger was ______.
    dirty
    sweet
    creepy
    handsome

  3. Rachel says that Pete Carney used to ______ after sex.
    cry
    run away
    fall asleep
    smoke a cigarette

  4. Monica ______ "won" when she was with Howard.
    always
    never

  5. Phoebe's friend Abby is bald ______.
    by choice
    because of her job
    because she is sick

  6. For the cleansing ritual, they can ______ or ______.
    burn things from ex-boyfriends
    give away something important
    talk to dead ancestors
    chant and dance naked
    drink special wine

  7. During the ritual, they use Fresca instead of ______.
    sage
    wine
    blood
    flowers

  8. They also use oregano instead of ______.
    sage
    wine
    blood
    flowers

  9. They throw ______, ______, and ______ into the fire.
    a book
    a photo
    some food
    men's hair
    boxer shorts
    a dinner receipt

  10. Scotty Jared is special because ______.
    he has a nice sweater
    he looks good naked
    he is very hairy

  11. The firemen have already put out _____ other "boyfriend bonfires" this night.
    one
    two
    three

  12. The firemen will finish work around ______.
    10 pm
    11 pm
    12 am

  13. The girls think that the cleansing worked because _______.
    they feel better
    they have dates
    they met some nice guys
    the firemen are handsome

  14. The fireman are all ______.
    single
    married

Score:



Vocabulary Review 어휘 검토 Revisão de vocabulário Vocabulario revisión Огляд лексики


Directions: What expressions from the video have the same meaning as the highlighted expressions in the sentences below?

Instrucciones: ¿Qué expresiones del video tienen el mismo significado que las expresiones destacadas en las oraciones siguientes?

Instruções: Quais expressões do vídeo têm o mesmo significado que as expressões destacadas nas frases abaixo?

지시 사항: 아래 문장에서 강조된 표현과 같은 의미를 가진 표현을 영상에서 찾아보세요.

Інструкції: Які вирази з відео мають те саме значення, що й виділені вирази в реченнях нижче?


  1. Roger wants to [ go on a date with Phoebe] tomorrow night.

    [ take Phoebe out ]



  2. Phoebe [ broke up with ] a guy last week because he was creepy and mean.

    [ dumped ]



  3. Monica seems to [ go on a date with ] a creepy guy every night of the week.

    [ go out with ]



  4. Rachel wants to know why they always seem to [ eventually finish with ] jerks.

    [ end up with ]



  5. Phoebe says they can burn stuff or [ speak rhythmically ] and dance around naked with sticks.

    [ chant ]



  6. Their bad boyfriend bonfire [ becomes uncontrollable ].

    [ gets out of control ]



  7. The fireman [ finish work ] around midnight.

    [ get off ]



Sentence Building 문장 만들기 Construção de sentença Construcción de oraciones Побудова речень


Directions: Write sentences about the video clip using the words given. You can change the word form or add words, but you cannot change the word order.
Use a present time frame (tense).
( ) = optional   [ ] = necessary

Instrucciones: Escriba oraciones sobre el videoclip usando las palabras dadas. Puede cambiar la forma de la palabra o agregar palabras, pero no puede cambiar el orden de las palabras. Usa el tiempo presente.
( ) = opcional   [ ] = necesario

Instruções: Escreva frases sobre o videoclipe usando as palavras dadas. Você pode alterar a forma da palavra ou adicionar palavras, mas não pode alterar a ordem das palavras. Use o tempo presente.
( ) = opcional   [ ] = necessário

지시 : 주어진 단어를 사용하여 비디오 클립에 대한 문장을 씁니다. 어형을 변경하거나 단어를 추가할 수 있지만 어순은 변경할 수 없습니다. 현재 시제를 사용합니다.
( ) = 선택 사항   [ ] = 필수 사항

Інструкції: Напишіть речення про відеокліп, використовуючи подані слова. Ви можете змінювати форму слова або додавати слова, але не можете змінювати порядок слів.
Використовуйте теперішній час.
( ) = необов'язково   [ ] = обов'язково



Sentence 1

Monica / Rachel / Phoebe / discuss / bad / dating / experience

Monica, Rachel, and Phoebe [discuss/are discussing] their bad dating experiences.



Sentence 2

Phoebe / admit / she / be / tempted / go / out / creepy / guy / just / so / she / not / be / alone / Valentine’s / day

Phoebe admits (that) she is tempted to go out with a creepy guy just so (that) she [won’t be/isn't] alone on Valentine’s Day.



Sentence 3

they / take / turn / complain / about / awful / ex-boyfriend / and / wonder / why / they / always / seem / attract / jerk

They take turns complaining about their awful ex-boyfriends and wonder why they always seem to attract jerks.



Sentence 4

so / Phoebe / suggest / break / bad / boyfriend / cycle / with / cleansing / ritual

So, Phoebe suggests breaking [the/their] bad boyfriend cycle with a cleansing ritual.



Sentence 5

they / decide / burn / item / leave / by / ex

They decide to burn items (that were) left by their exes.



Sentence 6

fire / quick / get / out / control / so / they / have to / call / fire / department

The fire quickly gets out of control, so they have to call the fire department.



Sentence 7

fireman / explain / Valentine’s / day / be / busy / night / because / many / people / do / same / thing

The firemen explain (that) Valentine’s Day is their busiest night because many people do the same thing.



Sentence 8

they / start / flirt / fireman / and / arrange / meet / around / midnight

They start [flirting/to flirt] with the firemen and arrange to meet around midnight.



Sentence 9

Phoebe / believe / ritual / work / because / they / instant / meet / some / nice / guy

Phoebe believes (that) the ritual has worked because they instantly met some nice guys.



Sentence 10

however / fireman / make / it / clear / they / also / jerk / as / they / walk / down / stair

However, the firemen make it clear (that) they are also jerks as they are walking down the stairs.



Listen & Repeat 듣고 따라하기 Ouça e repita Escuchar y repetir Слухайте і повторюйте


Directions: Play the audio clip and try to repeat what you hear. Click "Show" to see the text.

Instrucciones: Reproduce el clip de audio e intenta repetir lo que escuchas. Haga clic en "Show" para ver el texto.

Instruções: Reproduza o clipe de áudio e tente repetir o que você ouve. Clique em "Show" para ver o texto.

지시 사항 : 오디오 클립을 재생하고 들리는 내용을 반복해 보십시오. 텍스트를 보려면 "Show" 를 클릭하십시오.

Інструкції: Увімкніть аудіокліп і спробуйте повторити те, що чуєте. Натисніть "Show", щоб побачити текст.


Clip 1
0:00 / 0:00

Roger wants to take her out tomorrow night.



Clip 2
0:00 / 0:00

Don't you remember why you dumped the guy?



Clip 3
0:00 / 0:00

Phoebe, you can go out with a creepy guy any night of the year. I know I do.



Clip 4
0:00 / 0:00

I went out with the guy for two months. I didn't get to win once.



Clip 5
0:00 / 0:00

You know my friend Abby who shaves her head?



Clip 6
0:00 / 0:00

She says that if you want to break the bad boyfriend cycle, you can do, like, a cleansing ritual.



Clip 7
0:00 / 0:00

Can we just start throwing things in?



Clip 8
0:00 / 0:00

Hey, he's wearing a sweater.



Clip 9
0:00 / 0:00

Wow, that guy is hairier than the Chief!



Clip 10
0:00 / 0:00

It's all right. It's all right. You don't have to explain.



Clip 11
0:00 / 0:00

This isn't the first boyfriend bonfire that we've seen get out of control.



Clip 12
0:00 / 0:00

We get off around midnight. Why don't we pick you up then?



Clip 13
0:00 / 0:00

I'll even let you ring the bell.



Clip 14
0:00 / 0:00

(Did) You guys tell them you were married?



Clip 15
0:00 / 0:00

Are you kidding? My girlfriend doesn't know. I'm not going to tell them!



Discussion 논의 Questões de discussão Discusión Обговорення


  1. Monica, Rachel, and Phoebe each describe a past bad relationship. Can you remember why they disliked each guy?
  2. If you are a Friends expert, can you remember some other bad past relationships for each of the three women?
  3. Can you remember four things that they threw into the fire?
  4. If you were participating in this ritual, what would you want to throw into the fire?
  5. Phoebe seems to prefer to be on a bad date than be alone on Valentine's Day. Do you agree? Why or why not?
  6. Have you ever heard of or participated in any cultural rituals or practices aimed at bringing positive changes into your life? If so, what was it like? Did it work?
  7. Monica mentions that they might be "some kind of magnets" for attracting bad boyfriends. Do you believe that some people attract bad people into their lives? Why or why not?
  8. The firefighters who arrive at the scene are portrayed as attractive and charming, a common American stereotype. Is this image of firefighters similar in your country? What jobs generally have an attractive image?

Script 대본 Roteiro Guion Сценарій


Monica: You cannot do this.

Rachel: Do what? Do what?

Monica: Roger wants to take her out tomorrow night.

Rachel: No! Phoebes! Don't you remember why you dumped the guy?

Phoebe: Because he was creepy, and mean, and a little frightening. All right, still, it's nice to have a date on Valentine's Day!

Monica: But Phoebe, you can go out with a creepy guy any night of the year. I know I do.


Rachel: Okay, Okay, Roger was creepy, but he was nothing compared to Pete Carney.

Monica: Which one was Pete Carney?

Rachel: Pete the Weeper? Remember that guy who used to cry every time we had sex. "Was it good for you?"

Monica: Yeah, well, I'll take a little crying any day over Howard-the-I-win-guy. "I win! I win!" I went out with the guy for two months. I didn't get to win once.

Rachel: How did we end up with these jerks? We're good people!

Monica: I don't know. Maybe we're some kind of magnets.

Phoebe: Oh! You know my friend Abby who shaves her head? She says that if you want to break the bad boyfriend cycle, you can do, like, a cleansing ritual.

Rachel: Pheebes, this woman is voluntarily bald.

Phoebe: Yeah. So, we can do it tomorrow night, you guys. It's Valentine's Day. It's perfect.

Monica: Okay, well, what kind of ritual?

Phoebe: Okay. We can, um, we can burn the stuff they gave us.

Rachel: Or?

Phoebe: Or...or we can chant and dance around naked, you know, with sticks.

Monica: Burning's good.

Rachel: Burning's good.

Phoebe: Okay, so now we need, um sage branches and the sacramental wine.

Monica: All I have is, is oregano and a Fresca.

Phoebe: Um, that's okay!

Monica: Can we just start throwing things in?

Phoebe: Okay, yeah, Okay. Oh, Okay.

Rachel: Okay, Barry's letters. Adam Ritter's boxer shorts.

Phoebe: Okay, and I have the receipt for my dinner with Nokululu Oon Ah Ah.

Monica: Look, here's a picture of Scotty Jared naked.

Phoebe: Let me see.

Rachel: Hey he's wearing a sweater.

Monica: No.

Rachel and Phoebe: Eww!

Rachel: And here we have the last of Paulo's grappa.

Monica: Hey, Rachel, isn't that stuff almost pure...


Fireman No. 1: What do we got there?

Fireman No. 2: A piece of something. Boxer shorts, greeting cards, and what looks like a half-charred picture... Wow, that guy is hairier than the Chief!

Monica: You know, it's a really funny story how this happened.

Fireman No. 3: It's all right. It's all right. You don't have to explain. This isn't the first boyfriend bonfire that we've seen get out of control.

Fireman No. 1: You're our third call tonight.

Rachel: Really?

Fireman No. 2: Oh, sure, Valentine's is our busiest night of the year.


Fireman No. 3: We get off around midnight. Why don't we pick you up then?

Rachel: So, um, will you bring the truck?

Fireman No. 3: I'll even let you ring the bell.

Rachel: Oh, my god.

Phoebe: See, there you go. The cleansing works!

Monica: They're nice guys.

Rachel: Oh, they're firemen guys.


Fireman No. 1: You guys tell them you were married?

Fireman No. 2: No way!

Fireman No. 3: Are you kidding? My girlfriend doesn't know. I'm not going to tell them!


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