Learn English with How I met your mother

#13. Getting Over an Ex


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Published: 26 Sep 2026
Level 3 (B1)   |   Time: 1:59
Accent: American

The friends share their theories on how long it takes to get over a breakup, and Ted meets someone new.


Directions 이용안내 Direcciones Instruções Інструкції


  1. READ the VOCABULARY + BACKGROUND

    It is important to read the vocabulary and background before you watch the video. This will improve your ability to understand the video. It will also help you understand how the new vocabulary is used naturally.

  2. WATCH the VIDEO

    The first time you watch the video, just try to understand the overall situation.

  3. ANSWER the QUESTIONS

    First, try to answer all the questions from memory. Then rewatch the video and try to answer the questions that you missed.

  4. WATCH and READ the SCRIPT

    Watch the video again while you read the script. Reading and listening at the same time will help you hear each individual word and improve your listening accuracy.

  5. DO the ACTIVITIES

    There are several different activities that focus on listening accuracy, pronunciation, vocabulary, grammar, and sentence structure.

  1. LEA el VOCABULARIO y ANTECEDENTES.

    Es importante leer el vocabulario y los antecedentes antes de ver el video. Esto mejorará su capacidad para comprender el video. También le ayudará a comprender cómo se usa el nuevo vocabulario de forma natural.

  2. VER el VIDEO

    La primera vez que vea el video, intente comprender la situación general.

  3. RESPONDE a las PREGUNTAS

    Primero intente responder todas las preguntas de memoria. Luego, vuelva a ver el video e intente responder las preguntas que se perdió.

  4. MIRAR Y LEER

    Mire el video nuevamente mientras lee el guión. Leer y escuchar al mismo tiempo lo ayudará a escuchar cada palabra individual y mejorará su precisión auditiva.

  5. HACER LAS ACTIVIDADES

    Hay una serie de actividades diferentes que se centran en la precisión auditiva, la pronunciación, el vocabulario, la gramática y la estructura de las oraciones.

  1. 어휘와 배경 읽기

    비디오를 보기 전에 어휘와 배경을 읽는 것이 중요합니다. 이렇게 하면 비디오를 이해하는 능력이 향상됩니다. 또한 새로운 어휘가 어떻게 자연스럽게 사용되는지 이해하는데 도움이됩니다.

  2. 비디오 보기

    비디오를 처음 볼 때 전체 상황을 이해하려고 노력하세요.

  3. 문제에 답하기

    먼저 모든 질문에 답을 해보세요. 그런 다음 비디오를 다시보고 놓친 질문에 답해보세요.

  4. 비디오 보면서 대본 읽기

    대본을 읽는 동안 비디오를 다시 보세요. 읽기와 듣기를 동시에 하면 각각의 단어를 듣고, 듣기 정확도를 향상시킬 수 있습니다.

  5. 액티비티 하기

    듣기 정확도, 발음, 어휘, 문법 및 문장 구조에 초점을 맞춘 다양한 액티비티가 있습니다.

  1. LER o VOCABULÁRIO + FUNDO

    É importante ler o vocabulário e o histórico antes de assistir ao vídeo. Isso melhorará sua capacidade de entender o vídeo. Também ajudará você a entender como o novo vocabulário é usado naturalmente.

  2. ASSISTA ao VÍDEO

    Na primeira vez que assistir ao vídeo, tente entender a situação geral.

  3. RESPONDA às PERGUNTAS

    Primeiro, tente responder todas as perguntas de memória. Em seguida, assista novamente ao vídeo e tente responder às perguntas que você errou.

  4. ASSISTA e LEIA o SCRIPT

    Assista ao vídeo novamente enquanto lê o roteiro. Ler e ouvir ao mesmo tempo ajudará você a ouvir cada palavra individualmente e a melhorar sua precisão auditiva.

  5. FAÇA as ATIVIDADES

    Existem várias atividades diferentes que se concentram na precisão auditiva, pronúncia, vocabulário, gramática e estrutura da frase.

  1. ПРОЧИТАЙТЕ СЛОВНИК і ОСНОВНУ ІНФОРМАЦІЮ

    Важливо прочитати словник і основну інформацію перед переглядом відео. Це покращить вашу здатність розуміти відео. Це також допоможе вам зрозуміти, як нова лексика використовується природно.

  2. ПЕРЕГЛЯНЬТЕ ВІДЕО

    Коли дивитеся відео вперше, просто намагайтеся зрозуміти загальну ситуацію.

  3. ВІДПОВІДАЙТЕ НА ЗАПИТАННЯ

    Спочатку спробуйте відповісти на всі запитання з пам'яті. Потім перегляньте відео ще раз і спробуйте відповісти на запитання, які ви пропустили.

  4. ПЕРЕГЛЯНЬТЕ і ПРОЧИТАЙТЕ СЦЕНАРІЙ

    Перегляньте відео ще раз, читаючи сценарій. Читання і слухання одночасно допоможе вам почути кожне окреме слово і покращити точність сприйняття на слух.

  5. ВИКОНАЙТЕ ЗАВДАННЯ

    Існує кілька різних завдань, які зосереджені на точності сприйняття на слух, вимові, лексиці, граматиці та структурі речень.

Vocabulary 어휘 Vocabulário Vocabulario Словник


Check the words you already know. Marca las palabras que ya conoces. Marque as palavras que você já conhece. 이미 아는 단어에 체크하세요. Позначте слова, які ви вже знаєте.

  • ☐ ☐ ☐ recover v. - get better; return to normal
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ a breakup n. - the end of a romantic relationship
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ however long exp. - no matter how much time
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ get back in the game exp. - start dating again
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ dive in phv. - jump into water headfirst; start something quickly and completely
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ dip v. - put briefly into a liquid
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ a toe n. - one of the five parts at the end of your foot
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ the highlight n. - the best part
  • ☐ ☐ ☐ What do you say? exp. - Will you agree? What's your answer?

n. - noun,    v. - verb,    phv. - phrasal verb,    adj. - adjective,    exp. - expression



Background 배경 O fundo Antecedentes Контекст


Ted Marshall Lily Robin Barney
Ted Marshall Lily Robin Barney
  • The narrator is Ted in the future. He is telling his kids the story of how he met their mother.
  • Ted was engaged to Stella, but she left him on their wedding day.

Questions 문제 Questões Preguntas Запитання


  1. How long does Lily think it takes to recover from a breakup?
    One week for every month the couple was together
    Half the length of the relationship
    It can't be measured in time
    Exactly 10,000 drinks

  2. Using Marshall's rule, how long would it take to recover from a one-year relationship?
    One week
    Twelve weeks
    Six months
    One year

  3. How does Robin measure a relationship's recovery time?
    In weeks
    In drinks
    In dates
    In tears

  4. According to the narrator, when do you start to recover from a breakup?
    When you meet someone who gets you dating again
    After half the length of the relationship
    When you stop thinking about your ex
    After a series of steps

  5. Why does the narrator talk about swimming?
    To compare it to how fast you start dating again
    Ted wants to take Vicky swimming on Friday.
    Because Ted met Vicky at a swimming pool.
    To explain Barney's series of steps

  6. What does Ted tell Vicky?
    The elevator rides have been the best part of his week.
    He would like to see her again on Friday night.
    She should dip her toe in the water first.
    He wants to keep meeting her in the elevator.

  7. Where does Ted want to take Vicki?
    To a restaurant
    On a cruise
    To a movie
    Swimming

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Story Order 이야기 순서 Ordem da história Orden de la historia Порядок подій


Directions: Put the events in the correct order, then press "Check".

Instrucciones: Ordena los eventos correctamente y luego pulsa "Check".

Instruções: Coloque os eventos na ordem correta e depois clique em "Check".

지시 사항: 사건들을 올바른 순서로 배열한 후 "Check"를 누르세요.

Інструкції: Розташуйте події в правильному порядку, а потім натисніть "Check".



  1. Lily, Marshall, and Robin give their opinions on how long it takes to get over someone.
  2. Barney argues getting over someone just requires walking out the door.
  3. The narrator says real recovery starts when you meet someone new.
  4. The narrator compares dating to swimming.
  5. Ted sees a woman he likes in the elevator.
  6. Ted smiles at her.
  7. Ted greets her.
  8. Ted introduces himself to her.
  9. Ted asks her out on a date.

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Vocabulary Review 어휘 검토 Revisão de vocabulário Vocabulario revisión Огляд лексики


Directions: What expressions from the video have the same meaning as the highlighted expressions in the sentences below?

Instrucciones: ¿Qué expresiones del video tienen el mismo significado que las expresiones destacadas en las oraciones siguientes?

Instruções: Quais expressões do vídeo têm o mesmo significado que as expressões destacadas nas frases abaixo?

지시 사항: 아래 문장에서 강조된 표현과 같은 의미를 가진 표현을 영상에서 찾아보세요.

Інструкції: Які вирази з відео мають те саме значення, що й виділені вирази в реченнях нижче?


  1. Kids, everyone has an opinion on how long it takes to [ get better ] from a [ relationship ending ].

    [ recover ] [ breakup ]



  2. Exactly 10,000 drinks. [ No matter how long ] that takes.

    [ However long ]



  3. But I think you start to recover the moment you meet that person who gets you [ dating again ].

    [ back in the game ]



  4. Now kids, if you want to go swimming, you don't just [ jump in headfirst ]. First, you [ put briefly ] your toe in the water.

    [ dive in ] [ dip ]



  5. These elevator rides have been the [ best part ] of my week.

    [ highlight ]



  6. At a restaurant, a nice one. [ Will you agree ]?

    [ What do you say ]



Grammar 문법 Gramática Gramática Граматика (grammar words)


Directions: Choose the most natural word (only one word) for each blank.

Instrucciones: Elige la palabra más natural (solo una palabra) para cada espacio en blanco.

Instruções: Escolha a palavra mais natural (apenas uma palavra) para cada espaço em branco.

지시 사항: 빈칸마다 가장 자연스러운 단어(한 단어만)를 선택하세요.

Інструкції: Виберіть найбільш природне слово (лише одне слово) для кожного пропуску.

  • Everyone (has) an opinion on how (long) it takes to recover from a breakup.
  • One week for (every) month you were together.
  • Exactly 10,000 drinks. However (long) that takes.
  • But I think you start (to) recover the (moment) you meet that person (who) gets you back in the game.
  • If you want to (go) swimming, you don't just dive in.
  • These elevator rides have (been) the highlight of my week.
  • (What) do you say?

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Sentence Building 문장 만들기 Construção de sentença Construcción de oraciones Побудова речень


Directions: Write sentences about the video clip using the words given. You can change the word form or add words, but you cannot change the word order.
Use a present time frame (tense).
( ) = optional   [ ] = necessary

Instrucciones: Escriba oraciones sobre el videoclip usando las palabras dadas. Puede cambiar la forma de la palabra o agregar palabras, pero no puede cambiar el orden de las palabras. Usa el tiempo presente.
( ) = opcional   [ ] = necesario

Instruções: Escreva frases sobre o videoclipe usando as palavras dadas. Você pode alterar a forma da palavra ou adicionar palavras, mas não pode alterar a ordem das palavras. Use o tempo presente.
( ) = opcional   [ ] = necessário

지시 : 주어진 단어를 사용하여 비디오 클립에 대한 문장을 씁니다. 어형을 변경하거나 단어를 추가할 수 있지만 어순은 변경할 수 없습니다. 현재 시제를 사용합니다.
( ) = 선택 사항   [ ] = 필수 사항

Інструкції: Напишіть речення про відеокліп, використовуючи подані слова. Ви можете змінювати форму слова або додавати слова, але не можете змінювати порядок слів.
Використовуйте теперішній час.
( ) = необов'язково   [ ] = обов'язково



Sentence 1

narrator / say / everyone / have / different / opinion / how / long / it / take / recover / breakup

The narrator says (that) everyone has a different opinion [on/about] how long it takes to recover from a breakup.



Sentence 2

Lily / think / it / take / half / length / relationship

Lily thinks (that) it takes half the length of the relationship.



Sentence 3

Marshall / say / it / take / one / week / every / month / couple / together

Marshall says (that) it takes one week for every month the couple [was/were] together.



Sentence 4

Robin / say / it / take / exact / 10,000 / drink / however / long / that / take

Robin says (that) it takes exactly 10,000 drinks, however long that takes.



Sentence 5

however / Barney / say / it / not / measure / in / time

However, Barney says (that) it can't be measured in time.



Sentence 6

narrator / believe / you / start / recover / when / you / meet / someone / new

The narrator believes (that) you start [to recover/recovering] when you meet someone new.



Sentence 7

then / he / compare / date / swim

Then he compares dating to swimming.



Sentence 8

he / think / you / should / dip / toe / water / before / you / dive

He thinks (that) you should dip your toe in the water before you dive in.



Sentence 9

Ted / smile / say / hi / and / then / introduce / self / woman / elevator / successive / day

Ted smiles, says hi, and then introduces himself to a woman [on/in] the elevator on successive days.



Sentence 10

he / final / ask / her / dinner / nice / restaurant / Friday / night / and / she / say / yes

He final asks her (out) to dinner at a nice restaurant on Friday night, and she says yes.



Listen & Repeat 듣고 따라하기 Ouça e repita Escuchar y repetir Слухайте і повторюйте


Directions: Play the audio clip and try to repeat what you hear. Click "Show" to see the text.

Instrucciones: Reproduce el clip de audio e intenta repetir lo que escuchas. Haga clic en "Show" para ver el texto.

Instruções: Reproduza o clipe de áudio e tente repetir o que você ouve. Clique em "Show" para ver o texto.

지시 사항 : 오디오 클립을 재생하고 들리는 내용을 반복해 보십시오. 텍스트를 보려면 "Show" 를 클릭하십시오.

Інструкції: Увімкніть аудіокліп і спробуйте повторити те, що чуєте. Натисніть "Show", щоб побачити текст.


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Everyone has an opinion on how long it takes to recover from a breakup.



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One week for every month you were together.



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Exactly 10,000 drinks. However long that takes.



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You can't measure something like this in time. There's a series of steps.



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But I think you start to recover the moment you meet that person who gets you back in the game.



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If you want to go swimming, you don't just dive in. First, you dip your toe in the water.



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These elevator rides have been the highlight of my week.



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What do you say?



Discussion 논의 Questões de discussão Discusión Обговорення


  1. What are the four friends' opinions about how long it takes to recover from a breakup?
  2. Which opinion do you agree with most? Why?
  3. What does the narrator mean when he compares dating after a breakup to swimming?
  4. After a breakup, is it better to "dip your toe in" or "dive in"? Why?
  5. Have you ever had to get over something difficult, like a breakup or losing a friend? What helped you?
  6. How do people in your country usually ask someone out? Is it different from the way Ted does it?
  7. What do you think will happen on Ted and Vicky's date?

Script 대본 Roteiro Guion Сценарій


Narrator: Kids, everyone has an opinion on how long it takes to recover from a breakup.

Lily: Half the length of the relationship.

Marshall: One week for every month you were together.

Robin: Exactly 10,000 drinks. However long that takes.

Barney: You can't measure something like this in time. There's a series of steps. From her bed to the front door. Bam! Out of there. Next!

Narrator: But I think you start to recover the moment you meet that person who gets you back in the game. This is the story of how I met that person.

Narrator: Now kids, if you want to go swimming, you don't just dive in. First, you dip your toe in the water.

Ted: Hey.

Vicki: Hi.

Narrator: You check the temperature. See how it feels.

Ted: I'm Ted.

Vicki: Vicky.

Ted: These elevator rides have been the highlight of my week, and I'd love to see you again Friday night. Not in the elevator. At a restaurant, a nice one. What do you say?

Vicki: Yes.

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